They make lots of promises, using words like, “I love you,” “you’re so beautiful,” and “spend our lives together.” The girlfriend might be saying the same words, but there is a difference.

Some girls give a lot and put up with a lot in order to get what they want most…the relationship.

When it is time for a dating relationship to end, they end it and move on.

So, I have simplified the WHY of cheating by whittling it down to five things.

This is not intended to be a complete list, mind you.

Counselor Gary Neuman asked 200 cheating and non-cheating husbands about why they cheated.

He found that 77% of cheating men have a good friend who also cheated.

And most often in the end they end up with a broken heart.

On the other hand, some guys (including the ones more likely to cheat) come at it from the other direction.

But cheating violates the relationship, not the sex.

To put it bluntly…guys cheat because the relationship was never their goal…it was the sex.

But if you haven’t figured this out yet, you will eventually discover that guys are really not that complex.

The male approach to dating lies somewhere between that of a caveman and a mechanical engineer, often more like the caveman.

…so I’ve met this other girl (who I’ve had sex with without you knowing) and I just don’t see things working out between us…so Yeah.