Things got a little tricky when his wife suddenly became pregnant.

Darleen worked in a building across the street from her lover's wife and was able to spy on her every so often.

Ask yourself this question: "What am I getting out of dating a married man?

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Believe me, when this happens, having that extra money invested will lead you to think, "At least I got something out of it." And that is much better than the feeling of having been walked all over.

I know you are probably thinking that you are in a unique and different situation because he truly loves you, and you love him, etc.

But that is what they all say, and when stress and reality get involved, people's emotions and decisions tend to be all the same after all.

For nine years, my friend Darleen dated a man who was married and now regrets it.

But this article is not intended to judge anyone or tell you to "just dump him!

" This article will openly and honestly describe what the typical experiences and outcomes are in these relationships so that you may be more prepared, educated, and informed about what you should expect, and how to handle it.

Now, how many women do you know who have sacrificed all for a man? If he is obviously lying to you to keep you available to him, consider if the relationship is worth your time or not.

If he can somehow help you in life by making you more successful, paying your bills, or buying you a home, then you have gotten something to show for your time. If he is married and has no intention of leaving his wife, then he may have been dating many women over the years.

After the divorce, they took care of their children at least half of the time.

The truth is, a man will change his life around and do anything to win you over if he truly does love you.

Darleen made excuses for her married lover for years, and she believed him when he told her that he could not stand his wife and never touched her.