Ever ask yourself the question, “Is he serious about us?

” It’s easy to develop feelings for a man you're dating and then wonder if he’s on the same page as you.

While guys might not come out and say it right away, they do a lot of the same things when they’re starting to see you as permanent part of their life.

Here are 17 signs he’s getting serious about you, in no particular order: 1.

If he’s cleared out a space for you in his closet, you know he’s smitten. He cares about your happiness, tries to help and is there for you. You don’t feel like conversation is difficult or forced. If you're NOT experiencing the things on this list and wonder why men become distant at pull away from you, get to the bottom of it with a free copy of Elizabeth's book Why Men Lose Interest and daily email series.

Pop Key He texts, calls, and contacts you in ways that show he’s thinking about you.

You wonder why he waited three days, but you say yes, anyway.

You have a second date that’s as good as the first, and, giving into the moment, you go home with him and come pretty darned close to sleeping with him. In fact, you’ve never been so sure of something in your entire life. He calls again three days later to set up your third date for the following weekend. You barely remember the meal, which is just a prelude to what comes after.

Tumblr Even if he was a serious player in a past life, he will be fine with taking it slow. He is punctual and makes sure to apologize if he’s late.

You won’t feel pressure to hop into bed with him since he will value your company as much as a potential sexual encounter. Tumblr You don’t have to worry about having a spot for your toothbrush.

If you’re in that limbo phase with a guy who gives you that irrational oxytocin high and you just can’t let go, despite the overwhelming evidence that this is doomed, do yourself a favor and call him right now. And now that you’ve purged yourself of the man who will never be your husband, you need to jump start your love life from scratch.