So why do such a significant portion of gay men feel comfortable writing it on their profiles?The answer most likely relates back to what we said earlier: the anonymity of the Internet provides a certain leeway to express oneself in a way that might otherwise be avoided.

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” In that sense, Rox says, stating a specific racial preference in one’s profile just isn’t necessary.

It’s hard to say why such overt prejudices seem so prevalent on gay dating apps in particular.

But the approach some employ when advertising them should be examined.

LGBT lifestyle expert Mikey Rox told Alter Net, “You don’t have to engage with anybody on these apps. Why do you have to go out of your way to potentially hurt someone’s feelings?

Shallowness in online dating manifests in different ways, but is mostly about appearance. The plight of bald men has been well articulated by the likes of Larry David and Louis CK.

And of course, anytime we talk about appearance, race will eventually come into play.

Kristen Martinez, a Seattle-based psychotherapist specializing in LGBT issues, says, “If you dig a little deeper into these motivations, you may start to notice some racist undertones to why you prefer certain ethnic groups over others.”An Australian study cited in a recent article by the Daily Beast, suggests, “Sexual racism…

is closely associated with generic racist attitudes, which challenges the idea of racial attraction as solely a matter of personal preference.”There aren’t many places left in society where you can get away with saying something like “No blacks.” Not in Brooklyn, at least.

Rox says, “I talk with plenty of gay people who say that’s the reason they don’t want to hook up with these racial groups.”It’s also true that certain areas tend to be populated by certain demographics.

And though most online dating apps operate in accordance to location, exclusionary politics knows no bounds.

And who easier to target than members of a community already hit by cemented racial stereotypes?